As we all should do, keeping our eyes focused on Jesus, through the good, the bad and the ugly. I believe if our eyes were always focused on Jesus, we wouldn't see the bad and the ugly. But we are sinners who have been blessed to be called God's children, and He shows us His mercy, grace, and love every day. Praise be to God. And I agree with you. I think it is not easy for either party to get over, for those who love their pastor.