In Christian love - one might say I love this explanation as it is simple enough for a fourth - grader to understand completely. We are not to look for a life partner who will be meek enough to never argue, but the partner must share each others values and keep their desires pure in our Lord's eyes.

Think long and hard folks; as our communication values in this decade are vast but our human intelligence is only what our Lord has designed for us. We don't live by all of our neighbors values but we live by those provided by our Heavenly Father?