In reply to Paul K.

Apparently you’ve forgotten or never experienced. How uncomfortable it is for a single person even a family to even enter a new church, full of strangers.

As a single woman it’s very difficult. I know everyone has their own struggles. If the person at the pew isn’t teaching and bringing the congregation through the word and fellowship. What’s the point of going. The congregation is large, surly someone can make an authentic hand in friendship. We are to lift one another up in friendship and pray. God doesn’t tell his children to be an island on their own. I have even been helped clean the church, no charge. The person I am cleaning with gets paid for her regular hours. I am doing to serve God and if it helps her, no problem. It’s all good, this gives me a purpose. This lady is unfriendly with passive aggressive comments. The rest of the church keeps me an arm lengths away. They’re a click and they don’t have any thought, considering or care for a lonely person. Hoping to find positive fellowship. This attitude, behaviour is of a fence sitter. You know what God said about them. I would prefer you to be hot or cold, since the fence sitters are only fooling themselves, to whom they are willing follow.

The attitude, behaviour falls of that individual and the pastors at the pulpit.

The gossiping is also horrendous in churches. Even pastors wives are guilty. If the leaders don’t learn, to follow Gods word. What are they teaching the rest of the world. Don’t go to that church. I don’t learn anything and they are cruel.