I disagree 100% It is NOT a luxury to have a church that provides infant and toddler care during the service. It is a sign of a lazy church when they don't help struggling parents. We are here for everyone in the congregation. We need to lift up our parents of young children and let them know we support them. By not offering a support system such as childcare during the service, we are stating, WHO CARES, struggle through the service, we don't care. I have been there for six years. As a parent of an ADHD child, I struggled to keep her in the seat, keep her voice down, keep her occupied, and I didn't absorb the service. Keep in mind Faith without works is dead. James 2:14-26 Works from faith such as caring for another's child so they can be present in a service, allows us to share our faith and support, in God's eyes.