There is no issue being led to a different perspective, so long as the perspective is one Jesus too could hold. I can assure you, Jesus would never be led to the perspective of enabling abortion, or of undermining His own created design of male and female sexuality. As far as "smaller," goes, fewer numbers does not mean something is wrong. Jesus said narrow is the path that leads to salvation and few will find it. Jesus said the world will stand in opposition to the kingdom of God. What's increasingly popular in the world is rarely the ethic of the kingdom of God. And as far as love goes, love is not tolerance at all costs. Love is compassion. Sometimes the compassionate thing to do is care, other times the loving thing to do is rebuke, that the sinner might turn, repent, and be saved.