My husband and I had a conversation about this about a year ago. (I know that because I put it in my Notes on my phone. LOL) I think what we often don't realize is that our roles are not supposed to be the same, therefore, we are not supposed to compete with each other. We are supposed to support each other. And that means some nights he cooks dinner because I don't want to and I do his laundry because I have the time. The mission is to support the family and we both contribute in different, complementary ways. Not as two teams against each one another. Great article!