I don't see anything wrong with rewriting your own script. Being a person graduating from college in the 60's the script was to graduate from college, get married by age 25 and have a career and have 3.2 children. At least this what I saw around me and my assumed script. Anything less, you are considered a failure. Then life intervenes, The Viet Nam War and delayed career and life fulfillment. The schedule is pushed back and has currently been fulfilled at age 77. Prior to my teaching career, I had my career to be a teacher put on hold. I had a a variety of jobs and career explorations. My faith was tested by these alternative experiences and ways. I learned about scripting from an accomplished social worker whose goals were to get people into their happiest and most productive states. Ironically he referenced biblical people (Most famously Moses) as the original psycho -therapists. I don't know whether he was a Christian or not, but his teachings resonated with me. What these experiences showed me was that my training and life experiences in Christian environments gave me all the tools that I need to be happy and fulfilled person. It was a road back to sanity and fulfillment. A. Bliss