With all due respect, I don't find anything in Mark 3:31-35 that indicates that Mary, Jesus' mother, had come with the intention to take Him away. It simply says that she and his brothers had come looking for Him. To me, that is very different. I personally would imagine that they were all assured, that yes, He was there, and that they might have found a way in with all the others, or left, their minds at peace. The earlier portion of the chapter also doesn't, as far as I can see, say that it was HIS house. It just says He entered A HOUSE, and a crowd gathered. To me, this is a significant difference also. Perhaps it is a matter of translation...

In the scripture about the wedding at Cana, I also do not see Jesus' interaction with His mother as disobedience, however loving. She didn't tell Him to do anything. She just reported that there was no more wine. Since she had not told Him what to do, there was nothing for Him to disobey. He simply gave an instruction, to which she instantly and willingly agreed, and told others to do the same. "Do whatever He tells you." (John 2:5)

I so understand an appreciate that the basic premise of the article, (that the 4th commandment is not conditional, and has no exceptions) and also think it could be extrapolated to all of the commandments, and the premise expanded to, "As faithful believers, it is our responsibility to obey God and behave as He has taught us, regardless of whether other people do the same." And in this way, we honor one another, and we honor Him.

Thank you for allowing space for comment. God bless you.