I agree with your article with one exception.. I think in today's society with misuse of drugs, pornography, gambling,etc. it changes the marriage to the point of having to divorce to save the children and yourself, frankly. When one of the spouses gets into these vices, takes treatment and still cannot keep away from for instance, gambling, the choice is limited! Support for the surviving spouse (women are getting into these vices more and more) and supporting the dads and the children is what the church can do.